lesson recently learned

be kind to unkind people. they need kindness the most.

im no honest to goodness saint but i found this really works. it is very difficult to do this especially when you've been the subject of people's unkindness. but things are only difficult when we insist they are. doing this, you run the risk of being rejected by the person you're trying to reach out but when the person does that, he's the one who loses. not you.