tips on how to love

i watched y speak last night. their topic was on who should give more love in a relationship, guys or girls? the average person on the street asked with the same question would probably say that it should be both - guys and girls should love in equal amounts because a relationship is a give-and-take matter. it's not good to keep score in a relationship. besides, love cannot be really measured.

anyway, the debate turned out to be heated one.

what struck me in the show were the things said in the few minutes towards the end. i don't recall exactly who said this, i believe it was ryan agoncillo, that you don't enter a relationship to be needy. you get into a relationship not to seek love from another person but to give your love to that person. loving is giving and vice versa.

ryan's final statement was something like this:

for the guys: love your woman like she's 16, young and beautiful.

for the girls: love your man like he's a 7 year old. let him play with his toys, let him play with his boys and he'll always come back to mama.

i'm not sure if i totally agree with him but i think it could work..